St. James Storytelling – April 2025

by Christina Geib

A year after leaving an abusive relationship, I found myself navigating life as a single mother, burdened with mistrust and apprehension. Seeking solace and community, I walked through the doors of St. James, uncertain of what to expect. I grew up in a Lutheran church so walking into St. James, in a way, felt like coming “home.” From the moment I entered, the warmth and genuine kindness of the congregation enveloped me, dissolving my fears that I may not be accepted as a single mom, and about starting over.

Initially, it was the spirit of acceptance that drew me in. Members of St. James didn’t just offer polite greetings; they extended heartfelt invitations to join small groups, community events, and prayer meetings. This inclusivity made me feel seen and valued during a time when I felt most invisible.

As I became more involved, I discovered a profound sense of belonging. The church’s commitment to service, justice, and outreach resonated deeply with me, providing opportunities to connect with others and contribute meaningfully. The sermons, rich with messages of hope and resilience, seemed tailored to my journey, offering guidance, encouragement, and love.

What truly anchors me at St. James are the remarkable women who have become my surrogate family. Having grown up without a maternal figure, I yearned for that nurturing presence. At St. James, I found not just one, but many maternal figures who offered wisdom, support, and unconditional love. They have walked beside me, sharing in my struggles and celebrating my victories, embodying the essence of Christian fellowship.

St. James is more than a place of worship; it’s a sanctuary where broken hearts are mended, trust is rebuilt, and faith is restored. The church’s unwavering support has been instrumental in my healing process, teaching me the power of community and the boundless nature of God’s love.

In sharing my story, I hope to convey the transformative impact of St. James. It’s a testament to what a compassionate and welcoming congregation can offer to those seeking refuge and connection. For me, St. James is not just a church; it’s home.